Where is She Going in Life?
This is something that you may not have questioned yet, but it may be something that you will want to. If you want to win back an ex girlfriend, do you know where she is going in life? Sometimes you have to respect the fact that you and her are on different paths in life and that may mean that you cannot reconcile with her. You may think that this should not be a problem, but it usually is. Do you want to be the guy that says, I want my ex girlfriend when everyone else knows that she is not right for you?
You have to think about things like this before you are ready to try and pursue her in the hopes of getting her back. You don't want to send yourself on a chase for a woman that is never going to be yours again, do you? I would hope that this is not the case.